One of our students, Michael Crawford, sent me a little blurb on the positive effect of Stephen K. Hayes’ To-Shin Do Mind Science Program is having on his life.
It is Saturday afternoon. Just got home from training. My cousin that I live with is a student of Kodoken Judo. We like to play in the living room from time to time. My cousin’s wife’s sister is staying over. (She has issues to work out – see where this is going.) Well, with the combination of my cousin & I, his daughter and her dog making for a very loud crowd, his sister is “rudely” awakened, be it noon, and comes out with all of her negativity aimed directly at me. Won’t say the exact words she used. I apologized and offered other suggestions so she can rest, such as sleeping in her mother’s room, which is unoccupied and further away, hence quieter. Instead she storms off and leaves behind a volley of abusive language and negative intent.
About 20 minutes goes by and my cousin’s wife comes home. I start explaining what happened but her & I start to go on the defense – which whenever she & I speak is notorious for. To be honest, we have spent over a year having people play messenger for us because we couldn’t talk to each other. As we started getting defensive about the “awakening incident”, I started to step back. I let her know that I love my cousin and she is a bigger part of his life than I’ll ever be. In turn I also explained that I love her too. I told her how she makes him happy and completes him and that I’m tired of fighting. Then the conversation went deeper than just this, which is another story.
It started out with strong negativity in a chaotic confrontation ready to explode, but with a little bit of mind science turned into a peaceful beginning in my household.
I would like to thank my instructors of the Newbury Park Quest Center for helping me see new wholesome values and also empowering me to take these values I already do have and use them in other versatile manners. This I wouldn’t have had been possible if I had not trained and experience the Mind Science drills that An-Shu Stephen K. Hayes masterfully handed down to the owners of the Warrior Quest Society. Thank you all again.
(Director’s Note: Most people in life, when given a lump of coal fail to see the diamond in the rough. Michael is not one of those people. Whenever I give a homework assignment from the Mind Science, he seems to always come back to me with a success story. His work place has become better because of him. He deals with confrontation, bullies, and environmental circumstances in an enlightened manner. And now, once again he has been the protector and actively promoted harmony at home.)
Paul Hantoshi Molinsky
Warrior Quest Society
1111 Ranco Conejo Blvd. Suite 503 • Newbury Park, CA 91320
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